Thoughts forever

Why is that attachment is so important in life...why can't we just be caring and loving with out developing attachment...When I was a kid, One day i asked my dad that why do we keep changing places every two years..I have friends here and i am happy with this place..i love my room and the city too..He answered me saying that my job demands moving places and its good for us....he told me that you should be loving this place with out actually developing attachment towards it...At the age i wondered whether it would be possible that you can love some thing and never get attached to it and i felt that it would not be possible...but as i grew up i actually learned from him that yes you can love with ...

Over time, we all gather a set of constricting habits around us — ones that trap us in a zone of supposed comfort, well below what our potential would allow us to attain. Pretty soon, such habits slip below the level of our consciousness, but they still determine what we think that we can and cannot do — and what we cannot even bring ourselves to try. As long as you let these habits rule you, you will be stuck in a rut. Like the tiny, soft bodied creatures that build coral reefs, habits start off small and flexible, and end up by building massive barriers of rock all around your mind. Inside the reefs, the water feels quiet and friendly. Outside you think it’s going to be rough and stormy. ...

This is some thing that i have been thinking on for past so many years...SAY...SAY THOSE WORDS which you want to...why don't we do that...What actually stops us from doing that....When ever i think of it...i remember a dialogue from movie " My Best Friends Wedding"...its in the clip here...the starting of the clip the guy says them...listen to them...This is a clip which says about love...forget love...why don't we say words...which the other person might be awaiting...To our friends, to our colleagues, to a road side vendor...When ever we have a argument with anybody, let it be parents, friends, colleagues, subordinates, bossses, the best way we choose is either to keep quiet or move away.....why ...

These days after shifting to a new place i think i can count on my fingers as to how many days did i actually be sleeping happily....no no its no the room thats bothering but some thing else....Didn't i learn it from my past experiences..yes i did...but why is this happening to me...is the phrase i keep thinking these days...there is so much to do in life...so much to read so much to learn...but still i am not doing that...why? is the question i keep asking myself for which i even don't know the answer...I think missing home after some 7 years of staying outside...but is that the whole point is or i am missing myself these days? not able to find out also...Tried asking more and then realised ...

I remember my dad teaching me the power of language at a very young age. Not only did my dad understand that specific words affect our mental pictures, but he understood words are a powerful programming factor in lifelong success. One particularly interesting event occurred when I was eight. As a kid, I was always climbing trees, poles, and literally hanging around upside down from the rafters of our lake house. So, it came to no surprise for my dad to find me at the top of a 30-foot tree swinging back and forth. My little eight-year-old brain didn't realize the tree could break or I could get hurt. I just thought it was fun to be up so high.My older cousin, Tammy, was also in the same tree. ...