This is some thing that i have been thinking on for past so many years...SAY...SAY THOSE WORDS which you want to...why don't we do that...What actually stops us from doing that....When ever i think of it...i remember a dialogue from movie " My Best Friends Wedding"...its in the clip here...the starting of the clip the guy says them...listen to them...
This is a clip which says about love...forget love...why don't we say words...which the other person might be awaiting...
To our friends, to our colleagues, to a road side vendor...When ever we have a argument with anybody, let it be parents, friends, colleagues, subordinates, bossses, the best way we choose is either to keep quiet or move away.....why move away...why do we say afterwards...why not right then at that point of time? I get amazed when people say "he/she is angry they won't understand what you say right now, so lets speak later" don't you think that they not understanding might be your fault...I mean tommorow you return to your work might not find that person forever..that might be his last day...he might have met with an accident yesterday...then what postpone it more...call him? Don't you think by the time you actually speak the other person might have lost interest in listening to you, cause he has made up his mind that you never wanted to say anything....
I had a situtation where i repent even today one chance please...but i know i will never get it...cause i lost that person forever...So now i make a point...i feel bad..i say it that i feel bad..happy express it...anger..show it....u want to shout...shout...do it then and there...you never know what would happen the next moment...as said in the clip "the moment passes by"
Dont let it pass by..Speak speak at that moment...let the other person be there...dont let that time go...You will never get a second chance to say some thing...speak when you get the chance...Say...say those words which are deep with in you...it helps...believe me it works...
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