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This is what i was thinking last week when i was in a shop...I was saying to my own self why can't i just mind my own business...but instead of saying this i should be saying...Not all elderly people are good and respectful...
I live in a society where almost 55% are of old people...It is a very nice and good respected society of pune...When me and my roommate thought of shifting to this society we were thinking a lot...Might be all the old persons would be a problem...if we happen to come late they might complain and if at any point of time there is a get together at our place for some bday they might talk to the society and stuff...But these people are so good...they live their lives and all of them are co-operative for everything...
Oh as my habit goes...deviating from the topic..since these days my roomie is not at home..i went to the near by shop to say not to drop in milk for some days since there was a over stock of milk at home...Then there was a old uncle who said this guy distributes milk as if he is giving it for free and then told the shop keeper did u hear dont drop milk at her place...i was suprised since i know the shop keeper very well and he is a nice guy...i smiled at uncle and took some more stuff i require and then started moving away...suddenly this uncle came to me and asked me where are u from...i said Hyderabad...then he said u dont seem to be from south at all...i was suprised to hear that too since all the people who meet me immediately say you look like u are from south India..i said thank you and started moving away...he again came along and said where do u stay what do u do...and stuff and then he started asking personal questions..by that time i came to my society gate and expected he would turn back but then he said OH you stay in this society i must say very nice society...and then he was walking with me towards the gate...i was like u dont stay in this society why are you coming with me (ofcourse in my mind)...
This so called uncle had an intention of coming with me to my place so i told him bye uncle..i have to go he is like let me drop you till ur apartment...then i understood and decided to get rid of him...i told him that i am going to my fiancees place and he stays in the same society and then my future MIL and FIL are also there...and if you want to meet please come along..he suddenly made a stupid face and said thats ok...i am not interested in meeting all of them..i will go back to my flat...i smiled and said bye..
I was scared to some extent but then went up to my society's security staff and told them not to let that guy inside the building for any reason, he said fine mam...i brought the same thing into the notice of my society and then they said if in any case the guy i showed claims to know some one the security will follow him till their entrance....i was relieved...
And now i feel why cant i mind my own business and let the go...i should not have smiled at that uncle only...and more over i am suprised at the mentality of such guys in this world..who are so cheap in their thoughts and they make loose our respect to the older generation...
Priya.
I live in a society where almost 55% are of old people...It is a very nice and good respected society of pune...When me and my roommate thought of shifting to this society we were thinking a lot...Might be all the old persons would be a problem...if we happen to come late they might complain and if at any point of time there is a get together at our place for some bday they might talk to the society and stuff...But these people are so good...they live their lives and all of them are co-operative for everything...
Oh as my habit goes...deviating from the topic..since these days my roomie is not at home..i went to the near by shop to say not to drop in milk for some days since there was a over stock of milk at home...Then there was a old uncle who said this guy distributes milk as if he is giving it for free and then told the shop keeper did u hear dont drop milk at her place...i was suprised since i know the shop keeper very well and he is a nice guy...i smiled at uncle and took some more stuff i require and then started moving away...suddenly this uncle came to me and asked me where are u from...i said Hyderabad...then he said u dont seem to be from south at all...i was suprised to hear that too since all the people who meet me immediately say you look like u are from south India..i said thank you and started moving away...he again came along and said where do u stay what do u do...and stuff and then he started asking personal questions..by that time i came to my society gate and expected he would turn back but then he said OH you stay in this society i must say very nice society...and then he was walking with me towards the gate...i was like u dont stay in this society why are you coming with me (ofcourse in my mind)...
This so called uncle had an intention of coming with me to my place so i told him bye uncle..i have to go he is like let me drop you till ur apartment...then i understood and decided to get rid of him...i told him that i am going to my fiancees place and he stays in the same society and then my future MIL and FIL are also there...and if you want to meet please come along..he suddenly made a stupid face and said thats ok...i am not interested in meeting all of them..i will go back to my flat...i smiled and said bye..
I was scared to some extent but then went up to my society's security staff and told them not to let that guy inside the building for any reason, he said fine mam...i brought the same thing into the notice of my society and then they said if in any case the guy i showed claims to know some one the security will follow him till their entrance....i was relieved...
And now i feel why cant i mind my own business and let the go...i should not have smiled at that uncle only...and more over i am suprised at the mentality of such guys in this world..who are so cheap in their thoughts and they make loose our respect to the older generation...
Priya.
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After Entering into the blogging world tagged for the first time by Renu...So here it goes....
1. Last drink: Bournvita
2. Last phone call: My Mom
3. Last text message: Idea Bill Payment Reminder (I always forget 24th of every month)
4. Last song you listened to: Talirada (from Rudraveena - telugu movie)
5. Last time you cried: Long back...I dont remember
HAVE YOU EVER...
6. Dated someone twice: No
7. Been cheated upon? I think No
8. Kissed someone & regretted it? No
9. Lost someone special? Ya..Some times you feel after loosing the Person..till date i remember my Naani...I wish she is alive. and the most special our dog...Tinku...
10. Been depressed? Ya many times... :)
11. Been drunk and threw up? No
LIST THREE FAVOURITE COLOURS:
12. Blue
13. Black
14. Onion Shade
FIRSTS :
15. Made new friends: Ya...Linked In you know is up these days...and Blogging too...Ofcourse Renu is my new friend... :)
16. Fallen out of love: Dont know how to answer it...
17. Laughed until you cried: Ya, when some one tickles me
18. Met someone who changed you: Many...You keep learning from the world
19. Found out who your true friends were: Ya
20. Found out someone was talking about you: Ya...do you want to know the name
HAVE/YOU:
21. Kissed anyone on your friend's list: No
22. How many people on your friends list do you know in real life:..in blog? None
23. How many kids do you want to have: Will have to think...let me get married first
24. Do you have any pets: Right now No...had one
25. Do you want to change your name: NO
26. What did you do for your last birthday: All my friends came and we had nice chatting
27. What time did you wake up today: 7...Dot on 7 today...
28. What were you doing at midnight last night: Writing mail to my sister
29. Name something you CANNOT wait for: my mom coming in may
30. Last time you saw your father: Jan 26th...and ofcourse today morning...i see his face in the photo... ;)
31. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life: Nothing
32. Most visited web page: Goolge, dpreview
Whats your:
33. Name: Supriya...People whom i know i dont even know one person who calls me with the full name :)
34. Nicknames: Chinnu, Suppi, Priya..and belive everybody knows me with these names only
35. Zodiac sign: Cusp between aries and tarus
36. Male or female or transgender: Female
37. Elementary: Do not remember
38. School: Many, but the most rememberable ones...Amali school in vijayawada and Little Angels in Tirupati
39. Colleges: Vidayaranya and SISTAM
40. Hair color: Black
41. Long or short: Long
42. Height: 5 6"
43. Do you have a crush on someone? No
44. Ever been in love? Yes
45. Piercings? I guess it does not look good except for ears
46. Tattoos? They dont suit me
47. Righty or lefty: Righty
48. First surgery: got my tonsils removed
49. First piercing:ears
50. First best friend: My cousin Karthik...i literally shared everything with him when we were kids..
51. First sport you loved: Badminton
52. First pet: Dog...Tinku
53. First vacation: I think to my Nani's Place and the one after my memory starts...to Ooty with my whole family :)
54. First concert: Sufi Music festival by Banyan tree known as Ruhaniyat
55. First crush: MBA senior
RIGHT NOW:
56. Eating: Monaco Biscuts
57. Drinking: Nothing..in office
58. I'm about to: Write comment on renu's blog about the completion of tag :)
59. Listening to: Dil Ibadat - Tum Mile
60. Waiting for: Satuday (Planning to go to a movie after a long time)
YOUR/FUTURE
61. Want kids? lets see
62. Want to get married? Already engaged...July 31st is the day
63. Careers in mind? Right now to become certified consultant
WHICH IS BETTER WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX?
64. Lips or eyes: Eyes
65. Hugs or kisses: Hugs.
66. Shorter or taller: Dont know...what to say
67. Older or Younger: Elder than me
68. Romantic or spontaneous: Spontaneous
69. Nice stomach or nice arms: Nice arms
70. Sensitive or loud: Sensitive
71. Hook-up or relationship: Relationship
72. Trouble maker or hesitant: Hesitant
HAVE YOU EVER :
73. Kissed a stranger: No..I hardly speak to strangers...
74. Lost glasses / contacts: Yes...Glasses...once from going to tirupati to coimbatore i feel asleep and i dont know where my glasses are when i have to get down from the bus
75. Broken someone's heart: No
76. Had your own heart broken: No
77. Been arrested: No.
78. Turned someone down: Yes
79. Cried when someone died: Yes
80. Liked a friend that is a girl?Like? Friends are the only one whom u choose so better u like them
DO YOU BELIEVE IN:
81. Yourself: Yes...99.99%...some times i get tensed too and then needs some motivation
82. Miracles: We ourselves are a miracle
83. God: I believe in
84. Love at first sight: I think you cant have love at first sight except with the clothes...Buy those which strike you when you see them for the first time
85. Heaven: I did not see if it exists...hard to believe in some thing which you have not seen
86. Santa Claus: No
87. Kiss on the first date? No
88. Angels: yes...all mothers in the world are angels
89. Devils: I see more human who are alive in the form of devils...
ANSWER TRUTHFULLY:
90. Is there one person you want to be with right now? One person is too tough to choose....but I would love to be with my sister now... :)
91. Had more than one boyfriend/girlfriend at one time? No
92. Wanted to kill someone ever? No
93. Among your blog mates, whom would you like to kiss? I dont know many and the ones i know i dont want to kiss them for sure
94. Committed a blunder and regretted later? Blunders are a part of life...instead regretting try correcting them if you can...
95. Wanted to steal your friend's boyfriend / girlfriend? No
Associate with something you wear:
96. White: Salwar kameez
97. Black: Footwear
98. Red: I dont like red much...but in a combination fine for a dress
99. Pink: i dont have any thing in pink for now
100. Posting this as 100 Truths? Yes..and i enjoyed it... :)
Tagging is followed by a rule of tagging other people when you finish...but since i have not many friends in blogging world right now...Sorry renu this ends here...next time may be i will have friends and will tag them....
Priya.
1. Last drink: Bournvita
2. Last phone call: My Mom
3. Last text message: Idea Bill Payment Reminder (I always forget 24th of every month)
4. Last song you listened to: Talirada (from Rudraveena - telugu movie)
5. Last time you cried: Long back...I dont remember
HAVE YOU EVER...
6. Dated someone twice: No
7. Been cheated upon? I think No
8. Kissed someone & regretted it? No
9. Lost someone special? Ya..Some times you feel after loosing the Person..till date i remember my Naani...I wish she is alive. and the most special our dog...Tinku...
10. Been depressed? Ya many times... :)
11. Been drunk and threw up? No
LIST THREE FAVOURITE COLOURS:
12. Blue
13. Black
14. Onion Shade
FIRSTS :
15. Made new friends: Ya...Linked In you know is up these days...and Blogging too...Ofcourse Renu is my new friend... :)
16. Fallen out of love: Dont know how to answer it...
17. Laughed until you cried: Ya, when some one tickles me
18. Met someone who changed you: Many...You keep learning from the world
19. Found out who your true friends were: Ya
20. Found out someone was talking about you: Ya...do you want to know the name
HAVE/YOU:
21. Kissed anyone on your friend's list: No
22. How many people on your friends list do you know in real life:..in blog? None
23. How many kids do you want to have: Will have to think...let me get married first
24. Do you have any pets: Right now No...had one
25. Do you want to change your name: NO
26. What did you do for your last birthday: All my friends came and we had nice chatting
27. What time did you wake up today: 7...Dot on 7 today...
28. What were you doing at midnight last night: Writing mail to my sister
29. Name something you CANNOT wait for: my mom coming in may
30. Last time you saw your father: Jan 26th...and ofcourse today morning...i see his face in the photo... ;)
31. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life: Nothing
32. Most visited web page: Goolge, dpreview
Whats your:
33. Name: Supriya...People whom i know i dont even know one person who calls me with the full name :)
34. Nicknames: Chinnu, Suppi, Priya..and belive everybody knows me with these names only
35. Zodiac sign: Cusp between aries and tarus
36. Male or female or transgender: Female
37. Elementary: Do not remember
38. School: Many, but the most rememberable ones...Amali school in vijayawada and Little Angels in Tirupati
39. Colleges: Vidayaranya and SISTAM
40. Hair color: Black
41. Long or short: Long
42. Height: 5 6"
43. Do you have a crush on someone? No
44. Ever been in love? Yes
45. Piercings? I guess it does not look good except for ears
46. Tattoos? They dont suit me
47. Righty or lefty: Righty
48. First surgery: got my tonsils removed
49. First piercing:ears
50. First best friend: My cousin Karthik...i literally shared everything with him when we were kids..
51. First sport you loved: Badminton
52. First pet: Dog...Tinku
53. First vacation: I think to my Nani's Place and the one after my memory starts...to Ooty with my whole family :)
54. First concert: Sufi Music festival by Banyan tree known as Ruhaniyat
55. First crush: MBA senior
RIGHT NOW:
56. Eating: Monaco Biscuts
57. Drinking: Nothing..in office
58. I'm about to: Write comment on renu's blog about the completion of tag :)
59. Listening to: Dil Ibadat - Tum Mile
60. Waiting for: Satuday (Planning to go to a movie after a long time)
YOUR/FUTURE
61. Want kids? lets see
62. Want to get married? Already engaged...July 31st is the day
63. Careers in mind? Right now to become certified consultant
WHICH IS BETTER WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX?
64. Lips or eyes: Eyes
65. Hugs or kisses: Hugs.
66. Shorter or taller: Dont know...what to say
67. Older or Younger: Elder than me
68. Romantic or spontaneous: Spontaneous
69. Nice stomach or nice arms: Nice arms
70. Sensitive or loud: Sensitive
71. Hook-up or relationship: Relationship
72. Trouble maker or hesitant: Hesitant
HAVE YOU EVER :
73. Kissed a stranger: No..I hardly speak to strangers...
74. Lost glasses / contacts: Yes...Glasses...once from going to tirupati to coimbatore i feel asleep and i dont know where my glasses are when i have to get down from the bus
75. Broken someone's heart: No
76. Had your own heart broken: No
77. Been arrested: No.
78. Turned someone down: Yes
79. Cried when someone died: Yes
80. Liked a friend that is a girl?Like? Friends are the only one whom u choose so better u like them
DO YOU BELIEVE IN:
81. Yourself: Yes...99.99%...some times i get tensed too and then needs some motivation
82. Miracles: We ourselves are a miracle
83. God: I believe in
84. Love at first sight: I think you cant have love at first sight except with the clothes...Buy those which strike you when you see them for the first time
85. Heaven: I did not see if it exists...hard to believe in some thing which you have not seen
86. Santa Claus: No
87. Kiss on the first date? No
88. Angels: yes...all mothers in the world are angels
89. Devils: I see more human who are alive in the form of devils...
ANSWER TRUTHFULLY:
90. Is there one person you want to be with right now? One person is too tough to choose....but I would love to be with my sister now... :)
91. Had more than one boyfriend/girlfriend at one time? No
92. Wanted to kill someone ever? No
93. Among your blog mates, whom would you like to kiss? I dont know many and the ones i know i dont want to kiss them for sure
94. Committed a blunder and regretted later? Blunders are a part of life...instead regretting try correcting them if you can...
95. Wanted to steal your friend's boyfriend / girlfriend? No
Associate with something you wear:
96. White: Salwar kameez
97. Black: Footwear
98. Red: I dont like red much...but in a combination fine for a dress
99. Pink: i dont have any thing in pink for now
100. Posting this as 100 Truths? Yes..and i enjoyed it... :)
Tagging is followed by a rule of tagging other people when you finish...but since i have not many friends in blogging world right now...Sorry renu this ends here...next time may be i will have friends and will tag them....
Priya.
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Seems like a topic that i dreaded to write from long time on a blog...These days it has become so obvious of everybody to complain "this guy in my office does this way" "my boss just does not understand and take responsibility"
It seems that its not work politics that are being played it seems that the tolerance level of people have gone down drastically...the knowledge part is the main thing...we learn in our first jobs and then in the second job and in the third job and finally we say now i know more and i am in a state of teaching...why the hell my boss does not understand it?
I feel what ever you learn how much ever you gain experience you have a boss and its a simple equation...You have been appointed undersome one else shows that you are not completely capable enough of holding everything and anything...and that proves he knows more than you...So what i ask is..why cant you accept him the way he is...
I always tell people...why do you fight with him...at the end whether you like him or not..you got no other choice and you will have to live with him till the time you are in that company...People reply back saying nahi i will change my team i will change my boss...I keep telling them thats not gonna solve the root problem...it still remains that way...
I some times wonder...My dad is my role model..he worked in a centralized back for 35 years and believe me i never heard him saying "I am resigining from this bank"...its not that he had all the fruitful career...he was also denied promotions for stupid reasons...he was transffered since some one else wanted to come to that place...his own batchmates played politics with him...but what he always use to say is its not the time to resign since i still have to learn things from here...
So the basic point is...Everywhere in this world where ever you work...there will be politics you have only one choice to choose...Whether you want to be a part of it...or not..
When you choose not be a part of it then don't complain do your work honestly...and belive that your boss knows what you are doing...he is not being paid to torture you...he knows but some times he reacts because of some one else not cause of you...leave it when he reacts...don't get into a fight with...it helps...
Priya.
It seems that its not work politics that are being played it seems that the tolerance level of people have gone down drastically...the knowledge part is the main thing...we learn in our first jobs and then in the second job and in the third job and finally we say now i know more and i am in a state of teaching...why the hell my boss does not understand it?
I feel what ever you learn how much ever you gain experience you have a boss and its a simple equation...You have been appointed undersome one else shows that you are not completely capable enough of holding everything and anything...and that proves he knows more than you...So what i ask is..why cant you accept him the way he is...
I always tell people...why do you fight with him...at the end whether you like him or not..you got no other choice and you will have to live with him till the time you are in that company...People reply back saying nahi i will change my team i will change my boss...I keep telling them thats not gonna solve the root problem...it still remains that way...
I some times wonder...My dad is my role model..he worked in a centralized back for 35 years and believe me i never heard him saying "I am resigining from this bank"...its not that he had all the fruitful career...he was also denied promotions for stupid reasons...he was transffered since some one else wanted to come to that place...his own batchmates played politics with him...but what he always use to say is its not the time to resign since i still have to learn things from here...
So the basic point is...Everywhere in this world where ever you work...there will be politics you have only one choice to choose...Whether you want to be a part of it...or not..
When you choose not be a part of it then don't complain do your work honestly...and belive that your boss knows what you are doing...he is not being paid to torture you...he knows but some times he reacts because of some one else not cause of you...leave it when he reacts...don't get into a fight with...it helps...
Priya.