Mind you own business...

This is what i was thinking last week when i was in a shop...I was saying to my own self why can't i just mind my own business...but instead of saying this i should be saying...Not all elderly people are good and respectful...

I live in a society where almost 55% are of old people...It is a very nice and good respected society of pune...When me and my roommate thought of shifting to this society we were thinking a lot...Might be all the old persons would be a problem...if we happen to come late they might complain and if at any point of time there is a get together at our place for some bday they might talk to the society and stuff...But these people are so good...they live their lives and all of them are co-operative for everything...

Oh as my habit goes...deviating from the topic..since these days my roomie is not at home..i went to the near by shop to say not to drop in milk for some days since there was a over stock of milk at home...Then there was a old uncle who said this guy distributes milk as if he is giving it for free and then told the shop keeper did u hear dont drop milk at her place...i was suprised since i know the shop keeper very well and he is a nice guy...i smiled at uncle and took some more stuff i require and then started moving away...suddenly this uncle came to me and asked me where are u from...i said Hyderabad...then he said u dont seem to be from south at all...i was suprised to hear that too since all the people who meet me immediately say you look like u are from south India..i said thank you and started moving away...he again came along and said where do u stay what do u do...and stuff and then he started asking personal questions..by that time i came to my society gate and expected he would turn back but then he said OH you stay in this society i must say very nice society...and then he was walking with me towards the gate...i was like u dont stay in this society why are you coming with me (ofcourse in my mind)...

This so called uncle had an intention of coming with me to my place so i told him bye uncle..i have to go he is like let me drop you till ur apartment...then i understood and decided to get rid of him...i told him that i am going to my fiancees place and he stays in the same society and then my future MIL and FIL are also there...and if you want to meet please come along..he suddenly made a stupid face and said thats ok...i am not interested in meeting all of them..i will go back to my flat...i smiled and said bye..

I was scared to some extent but then went up to my society's security staff and told them not to let that guy inside the building for any reason, he said fine mam...i brought the same thing into the notice of my society and then they said if in any case the guy i showed claims to know some one the security will follow him till their entrance....i was relieved...

And now i feel why cant i mind my own business and let the go...i should not have smiled at that uncle only...and more over i am suprised at the mentality of such guys in this world..who are so cheap in their thoughts and they make loose our respect to the older generation...

Priya.

3 comments:

A typical lecher..when my daughter was young, she was so naive that while travelling she will talk to co passengers freely..because of these type of men only I had to admonish her,This type of poeple are a disgrace to society.

 

Ha ha ha...Yes renu..its so true..even i have learned a technique from one of my friend...not to say the real name or real things to strangers while travelling...and i follow it ;)

Priya

 

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